Christmas friends

The time of day is upon us where we hold hands and feel that foundation of love again who binds us all together in this big pile of trust.

Friends have given me the pure love that made me believe in myself and my own words

They stumbled upon me when i was walking streets and they cheered and listened gravely to the words i expressed

Around fires and households, we listened to each other and made life renew itself. The happiness of going out to eat together, of the minds who dived into a situation together and wanted to leave no hidden secret away.

I am humbled to have met and got in contact with so many people who became my friends.

But what is a friend actually?
Is a friend someone who replies on your status? Some one who moves his own happiness aside to serve you.

Many people believe a friend has to be equal. A friend should benefit from you in their lives. Some are afraid to broaden the boundary of friendship. To change it. For we established something, a sense of what our friendship is. 

Some friendships die out, simple because someone in that connection thinks that they changed too much to be friends anymore.

I lost a friend in this way some years ago. He found out he was Autistic and i did not fit in his life anymore.

It hurts me to see that some People are afraid to accept change.
I have some friends i befriended when we were 7 years old. I do not believe that we could be the same friends for each other as we were back then but it is not the reason for me to let the friendship die.

It merely changes color.

It depends all on the manner in which you want to look at it.


Do you want to see your past childhood in their eyes and the life you turned away from. the childness that can never be again.
Do you want to live life in the past or do you want to embrace the moment you are living in.

In this moment you have the possibilities to accept all what this friend means to you.
You can see in their eyes and you can see the pure love that they have for who you are now.

Pure love is only a flash of fragrance that exist as a feeling that tingles your spine.
When you want to, you can acces the chances that this moment brings you to be just as the young kid who met this friend the first time.

Friends can have the ability to re ignite the spark of childness in you and you will lose all your doubts in that moment.

Your fears are transformed in their smiles and Laughter for who you both are will ignite the room and people will turn their heads to wonder about the kindness shown to them


I have two friends were i feel like a pure child. One is living in Sardenie and one is living in Deventer, Netherlands


By the changing of the year i was wonderfully happily surprised when  my friend from Deventer showed her face with her new found boyfriend she picked up in Japan

All my childness wanted to express itself towards her and everyone turned their heads to the wonder that they heard coming from our throats.

"Did you not see each other for a year or something"
"No, just a few weeks."
"We met at a naked camping when we were children."